Thursday, March 10, 2016

How To Repair Emotional Bond By Adopting Hawaiian Healing

By Helen Jackson


Emotional bond is a tie or a link you have with someone on whom you share a particular set of emotions and this creates a link or tie between the two of you. Every individual has this link between the members of their family, their relatives, friends, or lover. You have this kind of connection unto these people that only you two understands because you are very close with each other.

An emotional connection does not only built between you and your lover but also with your friends, family and relatives. There are a lot of factors that could destroy that connection. However, it can be brought to life or be restored through the Hawaiian healing on Maui.

There are actually a lot of stories as to how this kind of healing process works. Hawaiian healing is a brand of healing which was introduced in Hawaii. This procedure draw in two important elements and these are forgiveness and reconciliation. Here are some tips in order to bring back your emotional connections with your loved ones.

Think twice and act wise. If the person you were once close with did something wrong on you, do not react immediately. Remember to keep your emotions intact. If you react immediately, it would result to a war of words which would create a gap between the two of you. What you must do is just stay calm and get on your feet, and as much as possible, try to disregard that actions of him.

Look at the brighter side. The person you have once closed with for sure has a positive side, because if none, you would not become that close. Try to think about his positive side, reminisce those good memories you had with him. Most importantly, avoid thinking about the wrong things he had done unto you.

Avoid blaming. Understand and analyze the situation first before condemning the person. You cannot constantly blame him about everything just because you were in pain. Try to understand the situation, instead of getting angry at him.

Pray. This is the most important part in this healing process. Prayer changes everything, as they say. Instead of thinking ways on how to block him in your life, or how to get revenge, try to pray for him. Accept the flaws of each other and ask for forgiveness. Pray for him that he would change his bad ways, and pray also for yourself.

Love others as you love yourself. Loving yourself is the first step in a accepting you as a whole. Embrace your shortcomings and and your lapses as a human being. And then, say that you love yourself and do it constantly. This way, you would also be able to embrace the lapses of other people.

The effective way to bring back the emotional bond with those people you had loose connection with due to disagreements is to heal oneself first. This is very important because if you know how to accept your flaws, it would then be easier for you to accept his. By practicing this, you would be able to realize how life changing this process can be, in a positive way.




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